There is so much to unpack here. You've hit on such a core issue. This is so pervasive in our lives, from small things (feeling guilty about sleeping in) to big global issues (a world almost always at war). From our societies obsession with superstar sports and extreme activities, to just trying to look busy when the boss walks in the room. The phrase that bothers me the most? When people say "I'll sleep when in dead", usually in relation to justifying some overextension of themselves. I do not find that a badge of honor. Your article is a wonderful examination on softness, care and gentleness. A great read over a quiet cup of coffee.
Thanks so much for reading, Lauren. Definitely a big topic that touches so many parts of our lives but I'm glad I could share a little bit of my perspective.
There is so much to unpack here. You've hit on such a core issue. This is so pervasive in our lives, from small things (feeling guilty about sleeping in) to big global issues (a world almost always at war). From our societies obsession with superstar sports and extreme activities, to just trying to look busy when the boss walks in the room. The phrase that bothers me the most? When people say "I'll sleep when in dead", usually in relation to justifying some overextension of themselves. I do not find that a badge of honor. Your article is a wonderful examination on softness, care and gentleness. A great read over a quiet cup of coffee.
Thanks so much for reading, Lauren. Definitely a big topic that touches so many parts of our lives but I'm glad I could share a little bit of my perspective.